Inappropriate option
I am 28 and my husband is 32. We are married for the last three years but are not able to have successful sex as my husband doesn’t get enough erection for intercourse. I am very frustrated and desperate. I want a child, for this I think of having sex with my cousin. Please advice what can be the consequences of this with terms of my relation with my husband and getting infected with sexually transmitted disease?
I really wonder why having sex with your cousin has come up as a first option in solving your problem. Besides sexually transmitted diseases which you have correctly mentioned, there would be tremendous emotional repercussions if you were to indulge in such an act with your cousin. Is there more to your problem than not being able to have intercourse and conceive a child? If, like you say, inadequate erection is the only problem, then it can be easily rectified by a sex therapist. Waste no time. Consult a good sex therapist soon, and have a happy and satisfied life with your husband.
When semen flows out
Everytime we have intercourse all the semen leaks out of my vagina. I have not been able to conceive because of this.
What is happening with you is normal. Semen is not expected to get absorbed inside the vagina. A very small quantity of semen enters the uterus, and that is enough for conception to take place. The rest of it has to come out of the vagina sooner or later.
Kindly have your husband’s semen examination done. An inadequate sperm count in semen may be the cause of your inability to conceive.
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